It's weird how one little thing can change your entire perception of a person. It was going fine, the two of you were making concessions for the other person to be in your life. You were trying to negotiate a peaceful co-existence. But then you do something that shakes your partner so hard that they have to do something to really shake you up. And there's no real good explanation for it. Well, there is actually. It's called perception. Our reality if filtered through the way that we perceive events. For the first part of the relationship we see thing as going great as our psyche tries to merge our egos with that of our partners. So far, every break-up for me has come exactly at the point where my brain recognizes that that's not true. Then I start behaving more like an individual and it turns out that the girl, whoever she is, didn't like me as much as we thought.
No, I complain like I'm the only one that this happens too. But I know it's not true. Everyone is getting dumped all the time because people are wising up to their situations.
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